Two ceremonies, two question sets
Context
The groom is Valentine on April's invitation and Idrissa on February's. Same man, two names, because two different rooms are being invited. One form would have forced those rooms into the same words. The traditional ceremony is a family occasion at a house on Murana Sesay Drive, where households arrive together and the room runs in more than one language. The white wedding is an afternoon at a hotel with a guest list and a caterer. The questions worth asking are not the same questions.
Options considered
- One RSVP form with an event picker at the top (rejected)
- Two forms, each written for its own room
The call
Two forms on two routes. The traditional one asked thirteen questions: relationship to the couple for seating protocol, whether you would take part in the gift presentation, transport, language preference, and it counted the RSVP by household rather than by head. The wedding one asked ten: dietary needs, song requests, plus-ones, and it confirmed against the physical invitation.
Evidence
They ran on Google Forms, which is the only reason they could be that specific on day nine. Thirteen questions cost an afternoon of writing rather than the week of building I did not have.
Outcome
The February form asked about the things February needed. Nobody answered a dietary question for a ceremony that was not catered.












